Only lesbians need respond please..? I have always liked girls, but have barely ever acted on it. I have really only had one lasting relationship with a girl who broke my heart. So, I haven't explored much since her. What I am wondering is what kind of things turn lesbians on in bed? ie..squirting, toys, dirty talk, etc..I am just trying to see what is most common and how I compare to other girls out there. :-) So, please answer freely and honestly as it gives me a better picture. |
As a girl, you already know what you like personally and what feels good to you. Seriously, just start with that and if that's going well, maybe try out a few things you were curious about and if that doesn't seem to be going as well, quickly segue back into the safe zone. If you're in a committed sexual relationship, there's more room to explore, however.
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Lesbians do you agree with me? I am a straight girl but I feel SO anti-men right now!! I posted a question in singles & dating & said "what do men want in a woman." I got SO many creepy men who replied I'm appalled. Really. I chatted w/a couple cause they seemed nice at first. But then as I got to know them they got creepy too! One was "married" but confessed he had a lover/other woman flying in to do him. Any another suddenly asked me to describe how I'd "go to town" if his hairy, wrinkly, squirting package was in front of me. EWW!! Is that all men want? For women to please them down there?!?! I don't blame some women for being lesbian!! So am I alone that men can make your skin crawl? Let's face it - their package isn't all that anyway!! |
I'm not "appalled" by men.
Men are cool. They're funny, they're smart, athletic, stereotypically aren't as complex-minded or unforgiving as most girls. They can be great fun, and good friends.
I just don't have the desire to kiss, hold, touch, have sex with, deal with, or spend time exclusively with them. I'd rather make a woman happy.
There are creepo men, but there are also creepo women. You gotta understand that; it's so easy to become a misandrist through your way of thinking that men suck, men only want to bone you, jealousy of lesbians. I mean, hell, we got crap to deal with, too. Who doesn't?
I just find the spiritual and emotional energy given off by men unattractive in the long run, in general.
My lesbianism isn't so much a 'result' (if you wish to call it that) of hating men, but just loving girls so much that I just don't notice men in "that way".
I guess it can suck for you straight girls because of the males who get out of hand due to their stronger sexual drive.
But who DOESN'T have to deal with that?
Straight men have to deal with the unnecessary and outlandish expectations of SOME females, along with what can be an inappropriate sex drive as well. |
Lesbians who have had guyren by doing this...? having a sperm donor get off in a cup and then putting it in a turkey baster and then squirting it in her. Does that work? My girlfriend and I are wanting a baby and want to know the easiest way to go about this without sex from a man or going to the dr. If you have done this or have ideas please let me know. Thanks |
| Yes, best to know the medical status/history of the donor. And some guys do have a curiousity about their bioDad, even if completely happy with the home they are raised in. A lot of history on this by now, many grown guyren conceived this way and able to comment on how it worked out for them. Some women sign an agreement with the male donor (a friend generally, and often a gay man) so that he faces no risk of a paternity suit later. some women choose to have several donors so that the exact parent is not known. More complexity. Guyren tend to prefer to know something about the other parent. Medical history can become important as well, and this is good to know. Large cities such as SF and NY have groups of lesbian mothers who would be of value to you in figuring this out. Call a Women's Center or look on line for this contact information. (I have a wonderful 23 year old daughter...my how time flies!) Get the big picture ironed out first, the mechanics are easy....Congratulations. |
My girlfriend and I are lesbians...? we have phenominal sex. When we first started having sex neither of us had ever experienced squirting. Now neither of us can stop squirting during sex. It is so much and is everywhere. We were tired of flipping the mattress and soaking everything up with towels. We got one of those vinyl mattress protectors. We are still to the point that we have to change sheets after every time we have sex. Sex isnt a chore, but cleaning up afterwards is. We just want to be able to cuddle after sex, but there literally isnt a dry spot left on the bed. Any sugggestions as to how to stop squirting or some other solution?
The next part of our question is about squirting itself. what is it. We have read that it is clear and odorless. That isnt always the case with us. Sometimes it is clear and other times it is tinted yellow and smells like urine. In my research I have found that female ejaculation comes from the ureathra, which is also the same path urine travels. |
I find that when I am about to have an orgasm, if I do not "bear down" on my pelvic muscles, then I will not squirt. Although this does make the orgasms a bit less intense than the orgasms that it sounds like you all are experiencing, it does save you time from cleaning up. Next time you are about climax and you get the urge inside to press down with your muscles (you know, the feeling that you get when press down to pee or to expel blood when you're menstrating {sorry, I know thats a bit gross} ) don't do that, kinda try to hold that feeling in. You will likely still *** but you may not squirt.
Also, as for the content of the female ejaculate, my research, like yours, has found that ejaculate is supposed to be odorless and colorless. As for the yellow color and the urine-like smell, I was thinking that maybe it was possible that there would be a bit of urine mixed in with the ejaculate at times, considering the fact that pressure that you feel building before your orgasms might also cause you to urinate a bit during the Big O. Or at least thats my personal experience. I find that I still squirit when I have emptied my bladder before sex or masturbation. So maybe that might help. |
Lesbians only !!!!!!!!!!? i have a girlfriends that can ***/squirt but for me i try and try but nothing happen. I feel really bad cause i really want to do it the same time with her. she tells me she don't and she like me for me but i still really bad about.. what can i do to get over this feeling ? what sure i tell her ? and if you was the same as me would you go out with her even tho she came ***/squirt ?
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| nope dont sweat it at all. all women unfortunately cant squirt its just that. i mean just enjoy seeing your girl squirt. god i wish my girl would squirt for me :(. youre lucky sista! |
So a long time ago when I was ten Me and my cousin had lesbian sex. Was this illegal? My cousin and I were talking in the closet when we started to get horny so we squirted and moaned and fingered. So tell me was this ilegal or wrong? |
Illegal? Possibly. Due you the "ten" part, not the "lesbian" or "cousin" parts. Though in practice if she was about the same age as you this isn't normally treated as a crime, even though it might technically be one.
Was it wrong? That's for you and her to decide. |
Masturbation squirt? GIRLS!? Am I lesbian? How long does it take to squirt when u masturbate and when u do is it pee? I'm 13 and how hard is it to masturbate ur butt and if u do wont ya get poo on wat ya shove up there? |
Just keep trying you'll finally get it 13 is way to young to be worrying about this your acting like your 30 years old .
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Juicy & XTSY Combo or Reality Kings TV & Hustler TV Combo which is better? Rather which is dirtier? I like to watch anal scenes, lesbian, the young women (18/19),squirting and *** shots |
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Am I lesbian? Why do I not like girls? I I'm 14 and lately have been feeling horny. When i was looking over the internet for porn i found a couple of sights. The thing is I think it is kind of gross how guys penises squirt c u m. Lesbian sex videos are more entertaining does this mean I'm a lesbian. I don't like girls!
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| yes. You are a lesbian. you'll grow into girls later. |
Will squirt guns used liberally really work on gay and lesbian individuals to control "urges"? i am not bashing,, im just asking to learn. |
hmmmm
You are a strange bunny!
I think you have us confused with cats. And aversion therapy doesn't work to change a persons orientation, only their behavior.
If aversion therapy worked we would have driven away all the homophobes but since we can not change orientation this way we are stuck with them till they all decide to come out.
Randy
I am bisexual, I am g0y, I am Christian. |