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My Boyfriend is Addicted to Fetish Porn? My boyfriend admitted to me after I caught him that he is into fetish porn.. fetishes like goth girls, emo girls, asian girls, flat chested girls, and especially girls who smoke cigarettes... i am 100% opposite of these things. we've been together for 1 year and i knew about these before, but he told me when we started dating that he lost all interest in it and loves only me. how can he say my large breasts are perfect, and then admit to me last night that he prefers flat ****?!? while he was crying and begging he promised to go to a councelor, but now that things have calmed down a bit, he is refusing. he is also throwing it in my face that i am not being a christian by forgiving him and starting over (he is not religious). but i dont believe being a christian means being a pushover and afterall, i am human and am entitled to feelings. he claims he can overcome the addiction all by himself and will someday not have urges for these things.. is that possible? also, i want him to see a councelor, but he said no. we live apart, so i cannot monitor his computers. he claims he masturbates to it 3 times a day for this last year..? i have even done some of his fetishes for him in the bedroom to keep him happy with me, but i guess im not enough and never will be. i hate myself and my body right now. i gave him a list of terms and he wants to refuse or negotiate every one of them... he wants to make the terms! i think i deserve to mae the ultimatum and the terms and i deserve to have him to to counceling! i love him, but i also hate his guts right now. i dont now what to do... im tired of him trying to guilt me! what should i do?
ps: i told him from the beginning i dont believe in porn and i truly feel if you are 100% satisfied with your partner then you dont need to look at or desire anyone or anything else. he agreed with me and then lied! i know most of you will say im stupid for not liking porn and i think you are pathetic for not agreeing with me. | You have to understand that his addiction to porn is relatively a sickness. This man has been addicted to this kind of stuff for years something like this was started at a very young age. It's like a drug once you've had some of it you want more. Some people can tame their addiction but for others they need more time. What he needs is to Admit he has a problem, and get help. Sometimes its really hard for people to stop. You can't just make someone do something because the more you push the more they will pull away.
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If this man is not your husband you really don't have to put up with him. I mean if you say you are a christian then you know that the bible talks about a women being faithful and true to her husband and maybe you need to tell him if he doesn't want to get help then you and him can't be together. | Question about japanese people, answer if ur japanese? do japanese women/girl like American guys?
NOT this type (fat, with a beer belly, living in a trailer, asian fetish) type of a men.. i'm saying someone modern, young like teens, fun, funny, kind, cool,etc...
I don't think most of the Japanese men are like that! I think they're not very nice to girls, cuz asians tends to treat women less than men cuz thats the traditional thing, 99% of them smokes, etc...
my japanese teacher is HOT, im taking begging japanese in school and i can't stop thinking about my teacher, shes hot and cool!
i asked her about some personal stuff and she totally answered me!!!!
she said she married an american guy who was teaching english in a university in japan thats how she moved here to united states.
anyway... will japanese girls goes for a American guy? or do they overlook the person based on their looks? my teacher is down to earth and stuff... but i think most of the asian will only date asians cuz they're scared to come out of their comfort zone and most of the asians dont like to try knew things, they like traditional... but i want this from real japanese people!
what are ur thoughts about this?
are u more attracted to japanese or asian american guy... or it can be a white american guy? or it doesnt matter..
will you approach me if i was in your school? not for dating tho.. im sayin as a friend, would u be open to make friends outside of your comfort zone? (comfort zone... things ur used to see around ur school: japanese guys/asian guys)
just curious about this.. cuz here in the US it doesnt really matter if ur white/black/asian... but i know that in asian countries is different cuz they're used to see only asians around. i also heard that they overlook you if ur not asian... specially the teens, like the girls they will not go out or talk or be friends with people that doesnt look asian and they like to act innocent.. why do they do that??????????
its not cute in my opinon tho. | There are many type of girls exist in Japan.
Some date ONLY white.
Some date ONLY black.
Some date ONLY westerners.
Some date ONLY Americans.....
they all have their reasons, but probably because of their English skills or prejudice toward non-Japanese, many of Japanese girl would want to meet Japanese guys.
I would be free to make foreign friends and I would date someone from outside of Japan, but almost all of my female friends say they never think of dating foreigners or even making friends because of the language barrer.
Japanese guys are not bad like you are guessing nowadays.
They treat girls fine enough. (they just don't do "ladies first" thingy... cuz it's not our culture.)
If you come to Japan, some girls come to you to talk. some are nice. some are just for fun. some are to bring you like an accessory.
You really need to be careful that we are all different.
Don't become hooked on wrong girls just because they are Japanese.
Look into thier personality as well. well....I think you already aware of that, though. :) | Does my life sound like a TV teen drama? okay, let me explain my life for a minute or two.
Read the whole thing, it is pretty interesting, actually. i think it would make a good show. BTW, This is all 100% true... i wish i were joking with most of it to be honest...
-when i was 8, my father died, leaving my mom to raise me and my 3 sisters by herself. this left me as the only male in a house of 4 girls
-I have a dark past. when i was 12, i started abusing pills as an attempt of suicide, but obviously it didn't work. I am fine now, and i'm not "emo" or "weird"
-I am now 16, and I am a sophmore in a high school which has sophmores, juniors, and seniors, instead of the traditional 9-12th grade system
-I got my first girlfriend about 2 months ago. she was really aggressive and after 2 weeks we went to a new years party where we got naked and played around in the bathroom
-My friends don't like my girlfriend because she takes away from the little time i had to spend with them. After we started going out, I discovered that she smokes pot, and I've been trying to get her to stop.
-A few days ago, me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time, and the condom ripped. We had to get some pills called Plan B (post-sex birth control pills). We're still waiting on the results. My girlfriend is 15, asian, and hot as all holy hell.
-I was on the bus, and i was about to tell my best friend about my situation. When i said to him "i have something important to tell you when we get back to your house" he replyed with "i have something important too." i dismissed it, thinking it would be a stupid guy problem.
We got back to his house, and he told me that the girl he was about to go out with is pregnant with her boyfriend's baby (she was going to dump him, but when this happened, she changed her mind)
-I am completely in love with my girlfriend, but she worries that sometimes I only like her because i have an asian fetish. While i admit, i have a huge asian fetish, i could have my choice of many of the asians in my school, yet i chose her, and i'm with her for her personality.
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Sound like a TV Teen Drama? | | it just sounds like teen problems to me lol n thats basically a teen drama so i guess so ? but its a little weird telling complete strangers that lol n it might the asian fetish cuz i go thru phases too so i guess shes gonna have to wait n see lol n hopefully ur gf not pregnant so good luck with that | How can I stop my friend from being so racist? If there's something I hate it's racism (and sexism and homophobia etc), but I have this friend who has been acting pretty racist lately. We're both white. I've always known she was mostly into white guys or guys with a tiiny mix but who look mostly white. And I was never bothered by it since obviously everyone has different preferences, I didn't think of it as racist. I really like south-east Asians though and a couple of days ago she said it was gross that I had an "Asian fetish" since Asian guys look so young and apparently that makes me a bit pedophilic? Wtf?! And when I went on two dates with a black guy and I told her about my dates she kept referring to the guy as "Mohammed", like "did you and Mohammed kiss?" etc even though I'd told her his name like a million times. It makes no sense (he's not even muslim lol).. She's also told me that she doesn't think of Asians as "human", she thinks of them as "Asians" and that's it.. Oh and once when me and her and some other people were going to this salsa club she asked "Wait.. Will there only be latinos there?" like it was something negative. Why the hell does she want to dance salsa when she apparently has something against latinos?? Ughh I'm soo annoyed with her, but she's such a nice person otherwise, and she's one of my best friends so I have a hard time fighting with her, I never know what to reply.. :/ And she's so weird though because one time our mutual white friend said, JOKINGLY, that she only likes Obama because he's black, and then my racist friend started getting super defensive telling our other friend tha she was racist against white people etc (who cares, she's white too, it's not like she's against white people.. ughhh)..
What do I do? I can't take it anymore! And I don't just want her to stop saying racist things, I don't want her to BE racist ..Sorry about my ranting haha I just need to get this out, there's like smoke coming out of my ears lol I'm so annoyed right now.. | | stop being friends with her | Do you have any weird fetishes? for some reason i like asian girls alot more than other girls. and i like to smoke but only when having sexual intercourse or well using the restroom. | | with asian girls i do. but thats all i can think of. | Am I too old to join a sorority/do I sound like I would have fun/make good friends in one? (i'm a gamer/otaku)? Hi everyone :D I'm not sure where to post this because its so random lol >.>
I was wondering if I am too old to join a Sorority, and if it sounds like I would get along well in one.
I'm 19 yrs old and just finishing my first semester of Sophomore year. :3
I am a member of the anime club/entrepreneurial society and am trying to get a part-time job next semester. In highschool I was popular, but I find it hard to make good friends in uni. I make A's and B's in my classes, and here are some hobbies/stuff about me:
*I luv videogames (xbox 360/psp...and soon the dsi :D)
*I was privately trained for 5 yrs in Jazz, Classical, and Flamenco guitar.
*I adore anime (all types...even Hentai o__0)
*I enjoy roller blading, working out, and group sports.
*I like drawing/art (I mainly draw realistic pictures, but sometimes cartoons)
*I enjoy cooking
*I luv shopping/fashion (I like leather boots/100% cashmere, & my fav. brands r Louis Vuitton (but not the brown/black ones, Marc by Marc Jacobs, Moschino, and Miu Miu)
*I am bilingual (When I was in highschool i studied abroad in Chile), and am currently trying to teach myself Japanese. Good luck on that one...lol...
*I love animals, and won't even kill a bug. ^__^
*I have a fetish for hairy asian men. :BB
*I live with my 26 yr old boyfriend (who is a hairy asian man XD), and would NOT live in the Sorority house (if I'm young enough >.>).
*I am 4'11", 100 lbs, thin with natural 30D's/nice butt lol...I am pale with turquoise eyes and thick/wavy light brown hair with natural-looking blonde highlights.
*I am a Business Marketing major and an Advertising Minor. My goal is to go into commercials, whilst starting my own company. :3
*I stopped drinking when I was 16, so I don't drink now. I don't smoke or do drugs either. ^__^
*I live in California (was raised here since I was 6 yrs old) and i am obsessed with amusement parks/the beach >.>
*My name isn't actually Sherry.
*I collect alarm clocks/watches/cashmere.
Thank u and I hope someone can give me some great answers! ^_____^ | | Every chapter at every school is different. Your best bet is to meet some women from the different chapters and see if you fit in. It is better to go through recruitment sooner rather than later, so being a sophomore may be a strike against you at certain schools (at other schools it might not matter at all). Ask about their housing policies as many sororities require that you live in the sorority housing at least one year. | My Boyfriend is Addicted to Fetish Porn? My boyfriend admitted to me after I caught him that he is into fetish porn.. fetishes like goth girls, emo girls, asian girls, flat chested girls, and especially girls who smoke cigarettes... i am 100% opposite of these things. we've been together for 1 year and i knew about these before, but he told me when we started dating that he lost all interest in it and loves only me. how can he say my large breasts are perfect, and then admit to me last night that he prefers flat ****?!? while he was crying and begging he promised to go to a councelor, but now that things have calmed down a bit, he is refusing. he is also throwing it in my face that i am not being a christian by forgiving him and starting over (he is not religious). but i dont believe being a christian means being a pushover and afterall, i am human and am entitled to feelings. he claims he can overcome the addiction all by himself and will someday not have urges for these things.. is that possible? also, i want him to see a councelor, but he said no. we live apart, so i cannot monitor his computers. he claims he masturbates to it 3 times a day for this last year..? i have even done some of his fetishes for him in the bedroom to keep him happy with me, but i guess im not enough and never will be. i hate myself and my body right now. i gave him a list of terms and he wants to refuse or negotiate every one of them... he wants to make the terms! i think i deserve to mae the ultimatum and the terms and i deserve to have him to to counceling! i love him, but i also hate his guts right now. i dont now what to do... im tired of him trying to guilt me! what should i do?
ps: i told him from the beginning i dont believe in porn and i truly feel if you are 100% satisfied with your partner then you dont need to look at or desire anyone or anything else. he agreed with me and then lied! i know most of you will say im stupid for not liking porn and i think you are pathetic for not agreeing with me. | well the opinion of porn varies from person to person, but thats not the point.
if he looks at porn and has been thru out the relationship, you need to ask yourself: can i live with this if he doesnt change?
you are both wrong in this situation, he should respect your values and opinions but you shouldnt expect someone you love to change to meet your standards. giving him a list of terms is sort of silly, if you dont like it you can leave. why do you think you can give him that ultimatum?
In all honesty the only reason you should recommend counseling is if he is very addicted to it. For instance if the power was out and he had no way to look at porn would he be able to function properly?
Every guy i know looks at porn, its what they do, they are visual creatures. would you rather him look at porn or go out and find these slutty smoking flat-chested gothic asian girls? when guys have fetishes like these that doesnt mean they would leave there girlfriend or wife if someone who met all there fantasies walked by them because its only something on a sexual level. you may be giving your guy something he cant get from the websites he looks at.
i think you should learn to love each other the way you both are or go yr separate ways. some people just arent meant to be, thats why everyone in the world is different. | My Boyfriend is Addicted to Fetish Porn? My boyfriend admitted to me after I caught him that he is into fetish porn.. fetishes like goth girls, emo girls, asian girls, flat chested girls, and especially girls who smoke cigarettes... i am 100% opposite of these things. we've been together for 1 year and i knew about these before, but he told me when we started dating that he lost all interest in it and loves only me. how can he say my large breasts are perfect, and then admit to me last night that he prefers flat ****?!? while he was crying and begging he promised to go to a councelor, but now that things have calmed down a bit, he is refusing. he is also throwing it in my face that i am not being a christian by forgiving him and starting over (he is not religious). but i dont believe being a christian means being a pushover and afterall, i am human and am entitled to feelings. he claims he can overcome the addiction all by himself and will someday not have urges for these things.. is that possible? also, i want him to see a councelor, but he said no. we live apart, so i cannot monitor his computers. he claims he masturbates to it 3 times a day for this last year..? i have even done some of his fetishes for him in the bedroom to keep him happy with me, but i guess im not enough and never will be. i hate myself and my body right now. i gave him a list of terms and he wants to refuse or negotiate every one of them... he wants to make the terms! i think i deserve to mae the ultimatum and the terms and i deserve to have him to to counceling! i love him, but i also hate his guts right now. i dont now what to do... im tired of him trying to guilt me! what should i do?
ps: i told him from the beginning i dont believe in porn and i truly feel if you are 100% satisfied with your partner then you dont need to look at or desire anyone or anything else. he agreed with me and then lied! i know most of you will say im stupid for not liking porn and i think you are pathetic for not agreeing with me. | | just my thoughts are this..u deserve better. So get better. But this question relies on you, do u really want to let go of him? Do u think Love can overcome your problem? U have to choose, not yahoo answers. I will tell you this. My man was once addicted to porn and it took 2 long years and a whole lotta JESUS to get him to stop. However he still gets really strong urges to look at it and sometimes even backtracks, but he feels guilty and stops again, without me even having to say anything. I personally didn't care if he looked at porn, but it was the whole religious factor. He would jack off for 7 hours sometimes! Crazy huh! I just stood by him and he eventually did quit but he tried earnestly and never lied about it. So u have to be sure that he wants to quit. Here is the thing about porn, the more you watch, the more addicting it is, and it transforms you, you eventually get tired of one kind and move to another kind , and then the oddest stuff like men on men, people and animals, things like that become very normal, that's the scary part. So just be careful! If u want to talk more just let me know! | My Boyfriend is Addicted to Fetish Porn? My boyfriend admitted to me after I caught him that he is into fetish porn.. fetishes like goth girls, emo girls, asian girls, flat chested girls, and especially girls who smoke cigarettes... i am 100% opposite of these things. we've been together for 1 year and i knew about these before, but he told me when we started dating that he lost all interest in it and loves only me. how can he say my large breasts are perfect, and then admit to me last night that he prefers flat ****?!? while he was crying and begging he promised to go to a councelor, but now that things have calmed down a bit, he is refusing. he is also throwing it in my face that i am not being a christian by forgiving him and starting over (he is not religious). but i dont believe being a christian means being a pushover and afterall, i am human and am entitled to feelings. he claims he can overcome the addiction all by himself and will someday not have urges for these things.. is that possible? also, i want him to see a councelor, but he said no. we live apart, so i cannot monitor his computers. he claims he masturbates to it 3 times a day for this last year..? i have even done some of his fetishes for him in the bedroom to keep him happy with me, but i guess im not enough and never will be. i hate myself and my body right now. i gave him a list of terms and he wants to refuse or negotiate every one of them... he wants to make the terms! i think i deserve to mae the ultimatum and the terms and i deserve to have him to to counceling! i love him, but i also hate his guts right now. i dont now what to do... im tired of him trying to guilt me! what should i do?
ps: i told him from the beginning i dont believe in porn and i truly feel if you are 100% satisfied with your partner then you dont need to look at or desire anyone or anything else. he agreed with me and then lied! i know most of you will say im stupid for not liking porn and i think you are pathetic for not agreeing with me. | The worst thing that has happened on his part is that he LIED. But, understandably, he did so because he was afraid that he would lose you if he told you the truth. And in the end, he did lose you. This tells me that you don't have a very open and accepting relationship.
In relationships there is a certain give and take. No one is perfect. Including your boyfriend. Including you. Certain people, as shocking as this may sound to you, find Christian "morals" extremely distasteful and misguided. You will either have to accept his taste for fetish porn, provided it does not dominate your relationship, or you'll need to end the relationship with your boyfriend.
Unfortuntately for you, you feel that the fetish porn has something to do with you and your body, but in reality, it has absolutely nothing to do with you. In fact, it has everything to do with your boyfriend and his fantasy, his desires, his wants. It will be impossible to satisfy all of his wants and needs. Would you even want to undertake so much responsibility? Accept that the porn has NOTHING to do with you or else you will just drive yourself absolutely crazy.
You are both entitled to your feelings. But that includes his feelings, as unpleasant as some of them may be to you. Get the counseling, for the BOTH of you, definitely not to change him, but to learn how to accept each other, and to find out if you can truly accept and live with what you don't like about each other. | My Boyfriend is Addicted to Fetish Porn? My boyfriend admitted to me after I caught him that he is into fetish porn.. fetishes like goth girls, emo girls, asian girls, flat chested girls, and especially girls who smoke cigarettes... i am 100% opposite of these things. we've been together for 1 year and i knew about these before, but he told me when we started dating that he lost all interest in it and loves only me. how can he say my large breasts are perfect, and then admit to me last night that he prefers flat ****?!? while he was crying and begging he promised to go to a councelor, but now that things have calmed down a bit, he is refusing. he is also throwing it in my face that i am not being a christian by forgiving him and starting over (he is not religious). but i dont believe being a christian means being a pushover and afterall, i am human and am entitled to feelings. he claims he can overcome the addiction all by himself and will someday not have urges for these things.. is that possible? also, i want him to see a councelor, but he said no. we live apart, so i cannot monitor his computers. he claims he masturbates to it 3 times a day for this last year..? i have even done some of his fetishes for him in the bedroom to keep him happy with me, but i guess im not enough and never will be. i hate myself and my body right now. i gave him a list of terms and he wants to refuse or negotiate every one of them... he wants to make the terms! i think i deserve to mae the ultimatum and the terms and i deserve to have him to to counceling! i love him, but i also hate his guts right now. i dont now what to do... im tired of him trying to guilt me! what should i do?
ps: i told him from the beginning i dont believe in porn and i truly feel if you are 100% satisfied with your partner then you dont need to look at or desire anyone or anything else. he agreed with me and then lied! i know most of you will say im stupid for not liking porn and i think you are pathetic for not agreeing with me. | | TROLL ALERT! |
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